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Searching for a New Ad Agency? Try Dating Them First.

Friday, February 14, 2025 2:43 PM

(Read Time: Approximately 4 minutes)

When you stop and think about it, the process of hiring an advertising agency is remarkably similar to dating. It’s all about getting to know each other, building trust, and determining if there’s enough mutual compatibility before making an exclusive commitment. Here’s a quick look at how this “dating” metaphor can play out as you begin looking for an ad agency to partner with.

1. Initial Attraction: First Impressions Matter

Just like dating, your first impression of an agency can set the tone for the relationship. Do they have an attractive, functional, and intuitive website? Does their firm have a positive reputation? Do they communicate with you clearly and effectively?

A Closer Look: You may be initially drawn to an agency because of their creative work or the “buzz” around their brand. This initial attraction is important, but much like going on a first date, it’s important to not form an opinion quickly. Before committing, take a deeper look at their approaches, their industry expertise, and their compatibility with your needs, goals and objectives.

2. The "Getting to Know You" Phase: Mutual Understanding is Key

Dating is all about spending time getting to know each other; the same applies when choosing an advertising agency. This phase is about making sure your goals, values and expectations are in alignment. You’ll want to review prior projects and case histories, ask about their methodologies, and see how well they understand your industry and your business objectives.

A Closer Look: During initial meetings with an agency, ask detailed questions about their processes, past successes, and how they would approach your needs and challenges. Just like dating, you want to be sure you and the agency “click.” Does their communication style align with your expectations? Are they asking thoughtful questions and showing genuine interest in your brand, or are they just eager to land a new account?

3. Take it Slow: Testing the Water

When dating, rushing into a committed relationship too fast can lead to disappointment. It’s the same when hiring an agency; it’s always wise to test the waters first. Before committing to a long-term partnership, start with a smaller project or trial campaign to assess how well the agency works with your team and whether they deliver results as promised.

A Closer Look: Taking the agency for a test run lets you evaluate what they’d be like to work with long term. Do they meet deadlines? Are they communicating with you and your team effectively? Are their plans, strategies and tactics in alignment with your business needs? Is their creative work on target, on message, and on brand? A “test drive” lets you make sure the firm is a good fit, without fully committing.

4. Honesty and Transparency: Avoiding Misunderstandings

Honesty is a cornerstone of both dating and business relationships. When hiring an agency, you need to make sure both parties are upfront about expectations, processes, budgets, timelines, and goals. Any attempt to hide concerns or wave-off potential challenges could lead to a disappointing relationship.

A Closer Look: Total transparency is key to any successful relationship. If an agency isn’t open and honest about their pricing model, billing practices, processes and strategies, this could create trust issues down the road. Transparency goes both ways too. You should feel comfortable having open and honest conversations with the agency you’re considering partnering with so that they are operating with all the information needed to be successful.

5. The Compatibility Check: Assessing a Cultural Fit

Compatibility in a relationship isn’t just about having shared interests; it’s about how well you align in values, communication, and overall lifestyle. When hiring an agency, cultural fit is essential. Does the agency understand your company’s culture? Do they share the same principles, work ethic, and approach to collaboration?

A Closer Look: Cultural alignment is just as important as creativity and technical expertise when it comes to building a strong working relationship with your ad agency. Make sure they understand your industry and business philosophy but also be sure they’re well aligned with your corporate culture and the communication needs of your team.

6. Making A Commitment: Moving Towards a Long-Term Partnership

Once you’ve spent time getting to know the agency, tested your compatibility, and built mutual trust, it’s time to make a commitment. This is where you move forward into a committed, long-term relationship — or part ways if it’s not working.

A Closer Look: After collaborating on a project or two, you’ll be ready to decide if the agency is a good fit for your business. If everything aligns — from communication and cultural fit to results and shared goals — you can confidently move ahead and commit to a long-term partnership. Just like in dating, this step should be carefully considered; once a commitment is made, it’s much harder to disengage.

7. Commitment Requires Effort: Maintaining the Relationship

Maintaining a successful partnership -- just like with any relationship -- requires ongoing effort from both sides. Regular check-ins, open communication, and course corrections are necessary to ensure your partnership thrives. It’s all about making sure you and your agency grow together, continuing to align changing goals over time.

A Closer Look: As your business grows, your marketing needs may evolve; both sides must be willing to put in the effort. A good agency will be willing to adjust their strategies, adapt to changes, and keep the partnership engaged, fresh and productive. Have set check-ins where you review campaign results, discuss what's working and what’s not, and make necessary adjustments.


It’s a Match!

By taking the time to evaluate agencies carefully, communicate openly, and assess long-term goals, you can build a successful, long-lasting agency partnership. But just like in dating, the key is finding the right match — one that’s mutually beneficial, aligned with your objectives, and committed to growing together for the long haul.

Of course, it’s possible that Leverage3 might just be the match you have been looking for. But we’ll never know if you don’t ask us out first. Please give us a call or drop us a line. We’d love to see if your business and our firm are a compatible fit; we’re ready to start talking whenever you are.


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